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the job search is a marathon not a sprint

Happy Tuesday ๐Ÿ“ฐ  A former coworker reached out to me about his job search, asking "is it really this hard? What am I doing wrong?". I get it, it's frustrating. Between scam recruiters, ghost jobs, being expected to update your resume for every job you apply for (I personally don't do that), and being ghosted after an interview, the job search can be depressing. A lot of work with little reward. I don't have the answers but I know for me, it's important to set boundaries. Right now, I'm in the middle of a 12 day cat sitting job with a second 9 day job starting today, so I use the morning hours for my job search then I'll be done with it for the day. Of course, I'll check my email later in the afternoon to see if anything has come up but I won't actively be in job search mode then. It works for me. I job search in the morning, go to my cat sitting jobs in the early afternoon, then relax in the late afternoon/evening. Being *on* 24/7/365 is somet...

it's ok to walk away

#MerryMonday ๐Ÿ“ฐ Following Friday's disappointing news, the recruiter called me today to tell me she wanted to plead my case to the hiring manager (read previous post if you don't know what I'm referring to). I thanked her but told her it wasn't necessary. She pushed a little and I just told her the truth: I don't want anyone (myself included) to have to *convince* someone to take a chance on me. I've had 3 decades of full-cycle accounting experience, not to mention that I've also been responsible for HR at most of the places I've worked - any company would be lucky to hire me. If a hiring manager doubts my word or doubts my motives, I feel like I would always be having to prove myself to them. And you know what? That would be a toxic environment for me. Thanks but no thanks... Job seekers, it's ok to say no to an opportunity if it feels off. #freelancer #FreelanceWork #FreelanceLife #WorkFromHome #RemoteWork #CatSitting #CatSitter #WorkLi...

closure is best, even if the answer is "thanks but no thanks"

I just got off the phone with a recruiter. While the outcome wasn't what I was hoping for, I am happy to get the closure. Earlier this week, I had a virtual interview with a recruiter placing an accounting role at a local company. The role is a lower level one that I was ok with being submitted for because I want a less stressful job. As long as a job will pay my bills, I'm ok with a lower salary (and I'm definitely ok with a less stressful workload and having a life outside of work). Apparently the hiring manager has her doubts about that and told the recruiter she was going to pass on interviewing me. The recruiter, true to her word, told me that she'd have an update for me by the end of the week and called late this afternoon to tell me. "I'm sorry" she said. "It's ok" I replied back. "I don't think I could work for someone who doubts what I'm saying, doubts my motives. Yes, I need regular income and that's why I'm ...

I prefer quality over quantity...

Happy Thursday ๐Ÿ“ฐ I was on the phone๐Ÿ“ฑwith someone last week (which is rare, I'm not a phone person, never have been) and she was telling me about her job search (misery loves company I guess ๐Ÿ˜‚) and how she had applied ๐Ÿ“‘ to almost 60 jobs in May and hadn't heard back from most of them. Of the few that she did hear back from, almost all were what she called "auto-rejections" ✖️ I let her vent because I know sometimes people need that but part of me wondered, did she apply thoughtfully to jobs she was actually qualified for? Or did she just apply to anything that she came across, thinking it's a numbers ๐Ÿ”ข game and hers has to come up eventually? I'm asking because I feel like to some job seekers, it's become a badge๐ŸŽ–of honor to rattle off the number of jobs they've applied to without any real context. Do you get a prize๐Ÿ†for applying to the most jobs in a week/month/year? I recently saw a post where someone claimed to have applied to 7800 jobs in ...

appreciation is appreciated

Happy Wednesday ๐Ÿ“ฐ I've been busy with cat ๐Ÿˆ sitting jobs today and had another client request that I stop by later this afternoon. Not to check on the cats (the actual job starts Sunday), but because there *may* be some sort of leak ⚠️ at the apartment ๐Ÿ˜ and I'm the only local person with a key๐Ÿ”‘ to let maintenance ๐Ÿงฐ in to check. His dad (who is briefly staying at the client's place) doesn't get into town until tomorrow and the client left this morning so I'm it. I'm happy to help, and I'd be lying if I said I wasn't worried about the cats - I mean, they are the REAL clients ๐Ÿ˜น Super nice (brand new!) client has offered to Zelle ๐Ÿ“ฒ me money๐Ÿ’ฒfor my time ๐Ÿงญ This is why I love cat sitting. No two days are the same and the clients really appreciate you. #freelancer #FreelanceWork #FreelanceLife #CatSitting #CatSitter #WorkLifeBalance

Just because I don't have a full-time job doesn't mean I'm not busy

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#MerryMonday  ๐Ÿ“ฐ Over the weekend, I ran into someone who I hadn't seen in a while. She asked how the job search was going and I told her it was tough. She replied with, "Well, at least you have some time off and have an open schedule, that must be nice" ๐Ÿ This is my schedule for June ๐Ÿ—“ I have 30 cat sitting appointments ๐Ÿˆ‍⬛ Not to mention a doctor's ๐Ÿฅผ appointment, a vet appointment for my foster cat ๐Ÿ˜บ, a webinar ๐Ÿ’ป, a book club meeting ๐Ÿ“–, and a couple of phone interviews๐Ÿ“ฑ And in between all that, I'm actively looking for a job (full-time, part-time, freelance) ๐Ÿ’ผ Yeah, that open schedule is so nice ๐Ÿ˜‚ Have a great week! May all of us looking for a job finally be rewarded ๐Ÿฅ‡ #freelancer #FreelanceWork #FreelanceLife #WorkFromHome #RemoteWork #CatSitting #CatSitter #WorkLifeBalance #JobHuntingChronicles

unsolicited advice - just don't

Happy Friday ๐Ÿ“ฐ If you've been looking ๐Ÿ‘€ for a job for a while, no doubt at least one person has given you unsolicited ๐Ÿ“ฃ advice. While well-meaning, it's usually not helpful ๐Ÿšซ Like at all. The fact is, if you haven't had to look for a job in the last 3 years, YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW HARD THIS MARKET IS. You just don't. So please, try to keep your well-meaning advice to yourself. If someone asks for your advice, by all means, dispense ๐Ÿฅผ away. But maybe qualify it with "it's been x number of years since I've been in the job market but this worked for me...". Job seekers, hang in there. And remember, it's ok to take the weekend off from the job search if you're feeling burned ๐Ÿ”ฅ out. #freelancer #FreelanceWork #FreelanceLife #WorkFromHome #RemoteWork #WorkLifeBalance #JobHuntingChronicles