when the trolls are close to you...

#MerryMonday 📰

I have someone trolling me in my job search. First it was a 6 a.m. text on a holiday weekend, then it was a comment on one of my Facebook posts (that had nothing to do with my job search, freelancing, or cat sitting). I'm trying to turn the other cheek but it's hard because this person is in my family and obviously there's a different dynamic in play...

It's impossible to get some people to understand just how tough this job market is, more so if they haven't had to look for a job in decades.

If you know someone looking for a job, please don't offer unsolicited advice. Don't ask "have you tried this?" or tell them to "get a job". If asked, by all means give your best advice (maybe qualified with "it's been x number of years since I've looked for a job but..."), otherwise stay quiet.

Job seekers, are you being trolled by someone you know? How do you handle it?

#JobHuntingChronicles

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